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7 techniques you can use to make your dialogue sound more authentic

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Every writer wants their dialogue to ring true – to sound like real people in real conversations, rather than scripted exchanges. Creating authentic dialogue requires a keen ear and a fine touch. Here are seven techniques to help you make your dialogue sound more realistic.

1. Use contractions

In everyday speech, people often use contractions. 'Don't', 'can't', 'I'm', 'you're' and other shortened forms of words make dialogue feel more relaxed and conversational. So, don't hesitate to incorporate them into your dialogue.

2. Embrace interruptions and overlaps

Real-life conversations aren't perfectly structured. People interrupt each other, talk over one another, and sometimes, two conversations happen at once. Reflecting these messy aspects can add a layer of authenticity to your dialogue.

3. Pay attention to individual speech patterns

Every person has unique ways of speaking – particular phrases they use, a certain rhythm, or distinctive vocabulary. Capture these nuances to give each character a unique voice.

4. Use appropriate slang and dialect

If a character comes from a specific place or belongs to a certain age group or subculture, their speech might reflect that. Be careful with this technique, though: too much slang or dialect can make dialogue hard to understand.

5. Avoid info dumping

In real conversations, people don't often speak in long monologues, and they rarely explain things the other person already knows. Keep your dialogue tight and avoid using it as a vehicle for large chunks of exposition.

6. Let body language speak

Often, what's not said is just as important as what is. Use body language and non-verbal cues to show your characters' feelings and reactions.

7. Listen and observe

The best way to write authentic dialogue? Listen to how people really talk. Eavesdrop on conversations in cafes, watch how people interact in different situations, and don't forget to pay attention to your own speech patterns.

Writing dialogue that sounds authentic is a challenge, but with these techniques in your toolkit, you're well on your way to creating dialogue that resonates with readers and brings your characters to life.